Accept Problems As Part of Life | By Adeniyi Ademola
There are some questions in life that you can not answer, anytime you try to find an answer to it, you will only end up in depression. There are some things in life you can not change, they happen by nature and anytime you try to change them you end up broken. There are some things in life that you can not explain because they are beyond you if you try to explain to them you will end up shattered.
There are some things in life that you can not stop, if you try to stop them you will be crushed. There are some things in life that you are not the cause, if you try to find who caused it you will be grinded. just stop blaming yourself for it and move on. You might be asked what can I do to those things? Always accept them as part of life and make a choice to move on.
A woman in Oyo state, When she was 8years old a mysterious wind blew on her and she became paralyzed, due to this incident she dropped out of school. her mother took her to where she could learn hairdresser and after she had finished with her appointed years, she got freedom and some years later her mother passed away. She was been maltreated by her family, because of that she left home to Benue state. She opened shop and started her hairdresser work and that same state, she got married and had children.
Fortunately, she met with one of her customer’s husband who happens to be a coach, so the man told her that she had good stature for sport, on her wheelchair she considered what the man said and started training. After some month, she was put on the field with her other colleagues who were disabled like her to play and she did well. A world cup match was hosted and she partook in it and won a medal, she went to other African countries she won silver, she proceeds to another Africa country and won a gold. She went to different countries and won different prizes.
That was how this woman started her career in sport. God will always make you the best version of what you can be in other to fulfill your purpose, only if you accept problems as part of life and make a choice to move on. Had it been these woman has started asking questions why is she disabled and let inferiority complex met her down and not accept problems as part of life.
She wouldn’t have gone far in life and she wouldn’t have had any career that she will be pursuing. She will be living a miserable life and probably begging for a hand because of her condition if she had not accepted problems as part of life and made a choice to move on.
Destiny always pulls us to the best version of what we can be to fulfill the purpose and only those that take responsibility and accept problems as part of life and make a choice to move on making the best out of life.
One of my friends went to a camp for a laundry business, but unfortunately for him, the business did not go well as planned which leads to great loss and debt for him. He came back home empty-handed with a lot of debt. He never blamed anybody for his failure, he only took responsibility and accepted it as part of life and made a choice to move on.
Some month later, he started another business which lasted for 2 years and folded up with a lot of debt again. He still doesn’t blame anyone, he took responsibility and accepted it as part of life and made a choice to move on. Just last year he started a laundry business again and he is doing well in it, with great expansion. How is it possible for him to do such? The answer is simple, he took on responsibility for his life and accept problems as part of life and made a choice to move on.
Your dreams may be shattered, vision might fail, but what is most important is to take responsibility and accept it as part of life and stop trying to find fault in others for your turmoil, misfortune and bad luck, Just make a choice to move on.
Great people don’t cry, they climb, great people don’t give up, great people always live up, no matter the circumstances. Great people don’t go through difficulties, they always grow through difficulties. A plan may be scattered and shattered, dreams may fail away, often at times, this is what life does to us. Everyone has difficulties in different ways, we all have challenges in different ways but what really makes the difference is the response we give to those challenges and difficulties, it is only our response to those issues that defined us and determine if we go or remain.
Things might be so difficult at times, plans might not work well the way you expected, dreams might fail to produce something good, life might seem upside down, opportunities might cease to come, friends might fade away, people might forget you, issues that are beyond your ability might come your way, life might seems so challenging, relationships might seems complicated but that is not the end of the world and that is not your end. Stop seeing difficulties as a disaster but rather accept it as part of life and take responsibility to move on.
A champion is someone who stands up when people knows he can’t. Accept problems as part of life and take responsibility for your life and make a choice to move on. Examine yourself, watch yourself, handle yourself well in front of others and accept problems as part of life. Don’t be afraid of difficulties, impossibilities, and losses. Be a winner, build yourself and your reality and make a choice to always move on in spite of any situations.
AUTHOR: ADENIYI ADEMOLA
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