Sex and Love, the episode of the day.
Don’t be fooled by the people that claim to want you. By the time you filter the dreamers, those only interested in sex, how you look, your possessions or those just merely curious, you will be left with a few sincerely interested in knowing and loving you for who you are.
Some people mistake sex for love. Love is not sex and sex is not love. Sex without love is empty. Sex without love is for the moment, and sex without love deserves no commitment.
Ladies, you cannot change a man with your good sex, neither cooking nor nagging will. A bad man is a bad man. ONLY God can change him. If you knew him as a cheater, abusive, disrespectful but you keep to that relationship thinking you can change him, it’s a fallacy. What he needs is the prayer for only God has the power to change the heart of a man.
Some men will say anything to have sex with you; such people only lust after your body but a man who truly loves you will do anything to prove that he loves you.
Avoid any man who wants you to prove your love to him through sex, they are selfish, don’t love you and will never be committed to you even if you give them sex.
The one who loves you will make love to your heart, mind, and soul first and wait patiently for your wedding night.
Again, good sex doesn’t mean good marriage, not all who make love make the marriage. Sex is just the icing on the cake, not the cake. It’s sweet, beautiful but not what makes the marriage work. You can have great sex yet have a bad marriage.
READ THIS: Love Episode: You and Your Ex.
Strong and beautiful marriages are built on the foundation of true love, grown through conflict and deepened by a long-term commitment. Such couples value each other as gifts and stop trying to change the other party. They listen and understand each other.
It is sad to see young ladies stuck to men who take them nowhere because of sex. Sex won’t make him love you, and a baby won’t make him stay. Don’t settle. Wait on the Lord.
SAY THIS TO YOURSELF; I am not single, I am in a long distance relationship with my husband /wife who lives in the future.
“Don’t allow love to turn into lust, setting off a downhill slide into sexual promiscuity, filthy practices, or bullying greed” – Ephesians 5:3 (MSG).