Love & Relationships

How To Keep A Man Interested Without Sleeping With Him By Adesewa

Men are natural hunters. It’s ingrained in their DNA and a basic part of their biological makeup. You can’t change it, so you can either work against it (which is like banging your head against a brick wall) or accept it and use it to your advantage to make a man want you more.

For most men, the pursuit of a woman needs to naturally culminate in sexual intercourse. Once a man realizes this isn’t a possibility, it may be tough to keep his interest.

But maybe you just aren’t ready to take that next step in the relationship.

Maybe you have a really good reason for trying to keep a man interested without taking him into the bedroom. If so, then there are a number of ways you can capture a man’s heart without resorting to sex.

Let’s briefly discuss how to keep a man interested without sleeping with him.

  1. SCENT

    Look, I know it may not seem like much, but scientific studies have demonstrated that scent is the strongest sense tied to memory. Use it to your advantage.

Buy a unique scent: something you love that perfectly fits you. Wear it only around the man you want. You’ll be amazed at the lasting effect this can have on how he perceives you and how much he thinks about you.

When you aren’t around, he’ll miss it. When you are around, it will stimulate and arouse him. Pretty soon, he’ll want you around all the time. Your scent can have a magical effect. Don’t neglect it.


    We aren’t talking electrocution! We’re talking spontaneity.

Be spontaneous! Men get bored easily by dull routines, so surprise your man on a frequent basis.

Make plans he wasn’t expecting. Book a fun weekend for two in a town or a state you’ve never visited before. Explore the weird and quirky things about your city and your surroundings.

Just make sure to take his schedule into consideration. If he has a stressful and busy week of work ahead, don’t expect him to be thrilled about a trip you’ve planned that will put him even further behind.

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Another way to be spontaneous is to change up your appearance frequently. Most men have the fantasy of being with many different attractive women throughout their lifetime. If you want to keep a man interested, change your hairstyle from time to time, colour your hair and change from a blonde to a brunette or vice versa, wear a sexy outfit he’s never seen you in before, workout regularly, etc.

To keep him interested, keep him guessing and make him feel like he’s with a new and exciting woman all the time! Give him the variety he craves, and he’ll have no reason to stray.


    When guys and girls tell each other the first thing they look for in a member of the opposite sex is a sense of humour, they’re not lying. The ability to make someone smile and laugh are easily one of the most important aspects of attraction and an awesome way to keep a man interested. It alleviates tension, lightens the mood, displays intelligence, and makes a man feel incredible when he’s around you.

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Keeping a man interested without sleeping with him requires that you make him feel “highs” every time he’s around you. A great way to do this is through communication. It’s not just about humour. It’s also about the exact words and phrases you say to a man. Check out Obsession Phrases by Kelsey Diamond to learn more about what to say to a man to keep him addicted to you. Good stuff!

You can’t put a price on funny, so keep your man laughing, and you’re sure to hook his heart.


    A lot of women feel like the men they date don’t pay enough attention to them and don’t take a genuine interest in their lives. But the truth is, many men feel the same way.

Taking an active and genuine interest in each other’s lives is a two-way street! If you’re looking for him to take an interest in you, there’s no better way than by showing him you’re willing to do the same.

If you’re not ready to sleep with him, be sure to get involved with the things he loves. It won’t kill you to spend a Sunday afternoon watching football with him and his friends from time to time. If he loves camping and fishing, don’t be afraid to pitch a tent and get a little dirty.

Remember, many other women aren’t willing to do those things. Make yourself stand out and keep him interested in you and only you by finding ways to have fun together, regardless of the activity. He’ll love you for it!

Have a great week ahead.

I celebrate with you.

Adesewa Hearted

Adesewa Hearted is Lover of Christ, Accountant, Relationship Coach, Public Speaker, Baker and Fashion Designer.

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