What most of we youth call relationship is nothing but abuse! If you experience any of these, no matter how madly in love you are with that person, it’s time to let go!
1. YOU DO ALL THE CHASE:
A loving relationship is mutual. A woman shouldn’t chase a man who has no interest in her. If he truly loves you, he should chase you, if you like him to respond to the chase. After the proposal and acceptance, both of you should chase each other. He loves you, you love him too. He calls you, you call too.
That is balance! He takes you out, you respond, balance! If as a man you are the one doing all the call, the chase, the chat, the bills, the dates, you have no relationship! If as a lady, you do all the call, visit, chat, dates, etc, that man does not value you, let the relationship go!
2. THEY RIDICULE YOU:
That is verbal abuse! Constant jesting, laughing at you, making fun of you, ridiculing you, looking down on you and treating you like a non-entity shows they lack respect for you. Of course in a good relationship, you play and laugh together but if they are always laughing at you instead of laughing with you, end the relationship!
3. THEY ARE STUBBORN AND PROUD!
Red flag! In a marriage-bound relationship, both of you should be humble enough to adapt to each other! If they are heady, stubborn, pompous, proud, sassy, rude, myopic, opinionated, heady and arrogant, end the relationship! If they take your words with a pinch of salt, do not value your personal and treat you like they are doing you a favour for proposing or agreeing to marry you, let the spoilt brat out of your heart, he’s not worth it. She is too full of herself to be a good wife! Lose them and let them go!
4. THEY ALWAYS ASK FOR SEX:
And you keep saying no, and they keep asking, first time, the second time, third time, fourth time, fifth time, excuse me, end the relationship fast and don’t look back!
5. THEY ALWAYS IRRITATE YOU:
There is no need to get married. If all the person does irritate and annoys you instead of making you happy and give you pleasure, you are with another person’s bone and flesh, end the relationship!